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		<title>Paraeducators need to speak for ourselves</title>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Richard Finegan.  We contribute to this acceptance of us as professionals when we stop letting the conversation, both in the schools and on the web, be ABOUT us and start being WITH us.  We need to speak for ourselves. 


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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Richard Finegan</strong></p>
<p>      There seems to be lots of interest on the web in information about paraeducators and our work with special needs kids. Plenty is written about us by teachers, administrators, union professionals or college professors who’ve never actually done our jobs. Not much out here is written by paraprofessionals ourselves. That is a shame.</p>
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<p>      Some, even some of our coworkers, may have the impression that we are little more than day care workers in the public schools. Most of us have been asked by a general ed teacher to leave the classroom (and the kids we are there to help) to go run some menial errand. Many of us are not even consulted about or included in IEPs relating to the kids we work with, as if our observations or insights are of no consequence.</p>
<p>      If we are going to be taken seriously, as professionals, we need to support efforts to make our jobs more professional. Continuing education classes should be required for us, in my opinion. Certification by the state might be appropriate where that is not already done.</p>
<p>      But I’ve drifted from my point: <strong>We need to speak for ourselves</strong>. We need to assert ourselves as intelligent, articulate professionals capable of worthwhile contribution to the discussion of our own jobs and role in the special education system.</p>
<p>      With the expansion of full inclusion, where kids with special needs are distributed among the general ed population and not segregated in special classes, more of us than ever before will be working in general ed classrooms without the constant presence of a special ed teacher. Many of the general ed teachers will turn to us for guidance in dealing with issues relating to our kids. If you’ve worked as a one-on-one to an included child you know this to be true.</p>
<p><a href="http://readerswithautism.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/baseball_at_the_plate.gif"><img class="alignleft size-medium wp-image-1102" title="baseball_at_the_plate" src="http://readerswithautism.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/01/baseball_at_the_plate-300x219.gif" alt="" width="180" height="131" /></a>      We need to be prepared to<strong> step up to the plate</strong>. Don’t wait for the general ed teacher to identify problems to you; bring things to his or her attention. Suggest solutions or consultations with the special ed case manager. Be an advocate for your kids. Be an advocate for yourself as a knowledgeable coworker in the classroom, more than just a warm-bodied adult.</p>
<p>      We contribute to this acceptance of us as professionals when we stop letting the conversation, both in the schools and on the web, be ABOUT us and start being WITH us.</p>
<p><strong>We need to speak for ourselves. </strong></p>
<p><a href="http://readerswithautism.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/jigsaw_red_09.png"><img class="alignright size-thumbnail wp-image-927" title="jigsaw_red_09" src="http://readerswithautism.com/wp-content/uploads/2010/02/jigsaw_red_09-150x150.png" alt="" width="150" height="150" /></a>      So here is my invitation to all paraeducators with something to say to the world: contact me. I have no desire to be a lonely voice in the wilderness of the internet . I can see that appropriate posts get published and, more importantly, FOUND by search engines like Google, bing, Yahoo, AOL. <strong>Together we can be stronger.</strong></p>
<p>     If there is enough interest in this, I am considering setting up a separate blog that can serve as a forum and sounding board for paraeducators. What do you think?</p>
<p>     I am cross-posting this on <a href="http://thedemandingclassroom.com" target="_blank">The Demanding Classroom </a>and <a href="http://readerswithautism.com">Readers With Autism</a>. Each blog already contains earlier posts for and about us as paraeducators. You can look for the category &#8220;Paraeducators&#8221; on either blog to find my posts, which are mostly different on each site.</p>
<p>Related posts:<ol>
<li><a href='http://readerswithautism.com/2011/02/paraeducator-central-our-new-blog/' rel='bookmark' title='Paraeducator Central: Our New Blog'>Paraeducator Central: Our New Blog</a></li>
<li><a href='http://readerswithautism.com/2010/10/writing-rules-for-a-kindergartener-with-autism/' rel='bookmark' title='Writing rules for a kindergartner with autism'>Writing rules for a kindergartner with autism</a></li>
<li><a href='http://readerswithautism.com/2009/12/why-i-object-to-the-term-shadow/' rel='bookmark' title='Why I object to the term shadow'>Why I object to the term shadow</a></li>
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		<description><![CDATA[By Richard Finegan This blog is a collaborative effort between my wife Sara and me.  She does most of the writing.  I do all of the editing, formatting, illustrating (mostly clip art), layout, etc.  Since neither of us had ever blogged or had a website before, it has been a new and rewarding experience. I [...]
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Richard Finegan</strong></p>
<p>This blog is a collaborative effort between my wife Sara and me.  She does most of the writing.  I do all of the editing, formatting, illustrating (mostly clip art), layout, etc.  Since neither of us had ever blogged or had a website before, it has been a new and rewarding experience.</p>
<p><img class="alignleft" title="jigsaw_green_10" src="http://readerswithautism.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/jigsaw_green_101-150x150.png" alt="jigsaw_green_10" width="150" height="150" />I am a Special Education Tech in a large Southern California school district where I have worked for several  years, usually assigned in general education classrooms working one-on-one with students on the autism spectrum.  My assignments have included one elementary, two middle, and two high schools and even the school to which  they remove students  for zero-tolerance violations.</p>
<p>I have a degree in journalism, a law degree, and am only a few hours short of being certified as a mild-moderate special education teacher.   So why am I working as a para-educator/classroom aide?</p>
<p>Because I like being able to focus on the students.  <em>Only</em> on the students.  Not grading 150 of yesterday&#8217;s five-paragraph essays, or preparing tomorrow&#8217;s lessons, and especially not tolerating all that frustrating, annoying administrative <strong>stuff</strong> that teachers are expected to deal with.  (As an hourly classified employee, I rarely even have to attend staff meetings!)</p>
<p><strong>The role of para-educator</strong></p>
<p>Helping the teachers, of course, is part of our job description <strong>but we are not there for the teacher&#8217;s benefit</strong> (to make copies, or grade homework, or mop the floor, though I&#8217;ve done <em>all</em> those things).  We are there <strong>only</strong> because one or more of the kids in that class has an IEP that says they need extra classroom support.</p>
<p>Don&#8217;t be shy about telling the teacher when and why you can&#8217;t do something they ask you to do if you truly feel  it intereferes with something one of your students needs from you.</p>
<p>So what is the role of the special education classroom aide in a general education classroom?</p>
<p><strong>To help the child with an IEP become more independent.</strong></p>
<p>When a child no longer needs me, I have succeeded.  When a child continues to depend on me for something other children do without assistance, I have failed.  I have asked in the past not to continue  with a particular student because I thought they had progressed as far as they needed to go with me.</p>
<blockquote><p><strong></strong><strong></strong><strong><em><img class="alignleft" title="Tip!" src="http://readerswithautism.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/08/Tip-150x150.png" alt="Tip!" width="140" height="140" /></em></strong>Tip: I rarely sit next to &#8220;my&#8221; student.  Though I may be in a particular class <em>only</em> because Brandon, or Susie, or Juan is there, I do not want the other kids to know that unless it seems necessary that they know that.  I watch my student from a distance, take notes, move in with advice or assistance and move back out again.  Meanwhile, I&#8217;m helping other students all around the classroom.  <strong>No student</strong> in the classes where I am assigned feels any stigma because I step over and talk to or assist them.  Most of them couldn&#8217;t tell you why I&#8217;m there.</p></blockquote>
<p><strong>Children on the autism spectrum can be great to work with as an aide.</strong></p>
<p><img class="alignleft size-full wp-image-477" title="thumb_Alfred_Hitchcock" src="http://readerswithautism.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/thumb_Alfred_Hitchcock.png" alt="thumb_Alfred_Hitchcock" width="85" height="99" />I worked with a sixth grader who was fascinated by Alfred Hitchcock (they often have intense interests) and wrote an essay about the filmmaker discussing several of his movies.  An eighth-grade student on the spectrum was a math whiz who read ahead in his algebra book for fun (and also composed on the piano).  A ninth-grader who rarely spoke required almost no help in completing earth science worksheets, finding answers from the textbook.</p>
<p>Yet all of these students, capable as they were in certain areas, had difficulty following even simple plots when reading fiction.  I don&#8217;t know that they had <em>hyperlexia, </em>but I would think it highly likely.  Often this particular reading deficit is not specifically identified.</p>
<p><strong>What can you do to help a child who understands the vocabulary but still can&#8217;t follow the story? </strong></p>
<p>Well, you can read Sara&#8217;s two posts on this blog about Autism and Hyperlexia.   And whether or not your teachers know about or focus on <em>anaphoric cuing</em>, <strong>you</strong> can use what you learn about it to help any student comprehend narratives, particularly fiction.</p>
<p>Simply put, <em>anaphora</em> are words that refer to other words.  Most of us know almost instinctively who &#8220;his&#8221; refers to when we read:</p>
<blockquote><p><em>&#8220;Bob slung the backpack over his shoulder and followed Julio.&#8221; </em></p></blockquote>
<p>A child with autism will often be unsure who is carrying the backpack.</p>
<p>So first, we have to identify the anaphora that may confuse a child.  These include more than just the obvious pronouns :</p>
<ul>
<li><img class="alignright size-full wp-image-483" title="IMG_17023-580x1024" src="http://readerswithautism.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/09/IMG_17023-580x10241.jpg" alt="IMG_17023-580x1024" width="348" height="614" />I</li>
<li>we</li>
<li>us</li>
<li>ours</li>
<li>you</li>
<li>yours</li>
<li>he</li>
<li>his</li>
<li>she</li>
<li>hers</li>
<li>they</li>
<li>theirs</li>
<li>them</li>
<li>it</li>
<li>its</li>
</ul>
<p>but also such words as:</p>
<ul>
<li>there</li>
<li>then</li>
<li>can</li>
<li>do</li>
</ul>
<p>When the child encounters these words in reading, we can ask (and teach them to ask themselves)</p>
<ul>
<li>Where is “there”?</li>
<li>When was “then”?</li>
<li>What is “it”?</li>
<li>Who is &#8220;he&#8221;?</li>
<li>Whose is &#8220;theirs&#8221;?</li>
<li>&#8220;Can&#8221; what?</li>
<li>&#8220;Do&#8221; what?</li>
</ul>
<p>Reading connections that most of us make almost automatically the child with autism may need coaching and repeated practice to learn how to make accurately and regularly.</p>
<p>If you, the para-educator, can help a struggling reader learn this seemingly simple reading strategy, you may just open the door to a lifetime of reading enjoyment.  It is worth the effort.</p>
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<p><strong>PS:</strong> I love this slogan <em>&#8220;When children can not learn&#8230;It&#8217;s time to change the way we TEACH&#8221;</em> They offer more than 40 products with this alone, and have dozens more autism-related designs.  We make not a dime off this endorsement, by the way.  <img src='http://readerswithautism.com/wp-includes/images/smilies/icon_smile.gif' alt=':)' class='wp-smiley' />   <a href="http://shop.cafepress.com/design/17338377" target="_blank">http://shop.cafepress.com/design/17338377</a></p>
<p><strong>Our Goal:  Providing help for struggling readers on the autism spectrum.</strong></p>
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<li><a href='http://readerswithautism.com/2009/10/hearing-the-story-in-your-head-the-role-of-expressive-reading/' rel='bookmark' title='Hearing the story in your head: The role of expressive reading'>Hearing the story in your head: The role of expressive reading</a></li>
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		<description><![CDATA[...you must give the child with autism a chance to learn cooperation skills.  You don't help the child who has social interation difficulties by imposing a resolution on every partner or group dispute in which you find them.
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			<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p><strong>By Richard Finegan</strong></p>
<p>While the issues rarely arise in reading class&#8230;Children on the autism spectrum often need a facilitator when working with a partner or  in a group.  &#8220;Teamwork&#8221;  is a difficulty for many of these students.</p>
<div id="attachment_617" class="wp-caption alignright" style="width: 229px"><img style="border: black 2px solid;" title="team_spirit" src="http://readerswithautism.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/team_spirit.png" alt="team_spirit" width="219" height="183" /><p class="wp-caption-text">...is difficult for many with autism</p></div>
<p>Working in groups may feel unnatural and uncomfortable for a child with autism.  They may&#8230;</p>
<ul>
<li>Call out other members of the group who are not following directions</li>
<li> Be distressed when others are not playing by or violate &#8220;the rules&#8221;</li>
<li>Antagonize other members of the group by their <em>seemingly</em> hostile or unfriendly attitude</li>
<li>Imagine that others in the group are harassing or picking on them (when they aren&#8217;t)</li>
<li>Actually be harassed or picked on by other members of the group</li>
<li>Completely tune out the group and work on the project independently</li>
<li>Be uncooperative when the group elects to do something differently than they would choose to do it</li>
<li>Seek an intervention by the teacher or aide to compel the group to do things their way rather than trying to negotiate a compromise or make a concession to the group</li>
<li>Refuse altogether to work on the project</li>
</ul>
<p>The teacher rarely has the luxury of spending much time monitoring any  particular partnership or group to be the moderator, make the  suggestions, resolve the disputes, calm the frayed nerves, etc.  This is where the classroom or one-on-one aide  can step in to facilitate.</p>
<p>As I&#8217;ve said before, I very rarely sit elbow to elbow with a child with autism to which I am assigned.  I will, however, stay within earshot when group or partner work is taking place.  When cooperation is occurring, I step far back and let it happen.  When it isn&#8217;t, I give them a few minutes to see if they will resolve the issue.  If not, then I will step in, make a suggestion, and step out again.</p>
<p>This won&#8217;t always work, but <strong>you must give the child with autism a chance to learn cooperation skills.  You don&#8217;t help the child who has social interation difficulties by imposing a resolution on every partner or group dispute in which you find them.</strong></p>
<p>When the activity is over, you should make time to debrief with the student:</p>
<ul>
<li>How did that go?</li>
<li>Were you able to resolve the issue about ___?</li>
<li>How?</li>
<li>Will you try that solution again the next time you work in a group?</li>
<li>Can you think of a way to avoid that kind of disagreement?</li>
</ul>
<p><strong><img class="size-medium wp-image-624 alignleft" title="lightbulb_dramatic" src="http://readerswithautism.com/wp-content/uploads/2009/11/lightbulb_dramatic-300x281.png" alt="lightbulb_dramatic" width="180" height="169" />One related tip:</strong> Many kids with autism will NOT choose a partner or a group they are not assigned to.  When asked to form groups of a particular size, or to choose a partner, they will stand up and wander around aimlessly until an adult asks if they have a partner or have joined a group and then assign them to it.</p>
<p>My impulse (as an advocate for my students with autism) is always to assign groups or partners.  But this, of course, is not helping the child learn to <em>create</em> social cooperative groups.  And I have found that there is a correlation between how confident a child is about the activity and his or her willingness to initiate a partnership.</p>
<p>On a new activity, the child may need help.  On an activity the child understands well, stand back and see if a partnership or group forms naturally before stepping up and helping him or her join a group.</p>
<p><strong>We would love to hear from other paraprofessionals willing to share what does and doesn&#8217;t work when working with a child with autism.</strong> There is room below for your Comments.</p>
<p>Related posts:<ol>
<li><a href='http://readerswithautism.com/2011/01/paraeducators-need-to-speak-for-ourselves/' rel='bookmark' title='Paraeducators need to speak for ourselves'>Paraeducators need to speak for ourselves</a></li>
<li><a href='http://readerswithautism.com/2010/10/writing-rules-for-a-kindergartener-with-autism/' rel='bookmark' title='Writing rules for a kindergartner with autism'>Writing rules for a kindergartner with autism</a></li>
<li><a href='http://readerswithautism.com/2009/12/why-i-object-to-the-term-shadow/' rel='bookmark' title='Why I object to the term shadow'>Why I object to the term shadow</a></li>
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